Stay Safe Out There!
I would be remiss to write a book like this without some “safe and sane” advice. Please be safe in your sexual ventures. Use a condom! Have your girlfriend tested for STDs. Generally…be smart. There is a ton of information on this stuff out there but I’ll touch on a couple important points…and make it quick.
STDs – There’s nothing that pisses me off more than a report from SFRedbook or WSG where the guy is bragging about talking the girl into sex without a condom. Blowjobs are one thing but intercourse is another. I don’t want your bugs and you don’t want mine! If you have bare back sex with a girl and write about it, there’s a girl I will avoid like the plague. Even if you’re an upstanding, clean, drug free dude…if you talked her into it then some other not so clean dude can too. Protect yourself and others from STDs, HIV/AIDS, etc. If you’ve never read about the guy they think is AIDS patient zero (the guy who spread it all over North America) take some time to. Don’t be that guy!
DATY – As far as you DATY (dine at the Y) guys, we’ll argue all day but I still don’t get it. Who’s paying who here? And why do I want to slurp up the last guy’s sweat and pubes? Like I said, you DATY guys will berate me no end for this but getting herpes in your mouth from her pussy is a lot more likely than her catching anything from a bare back blowjob on you. I understand that it’s very tempting and these girls can look squeaky clean and smell delicious…it’s just not for me. Besides, when you get herpes in your mouth…your next conquest gets herpes in her mouth…then I risk getting it on my dick and so on…and so on
Condom Hiding – The whole point of using a condom for a blowjob is to protect each of you from contracting an STD. There’s a practice that prostitutes and massage girls use. They never mention the condom but place it in their mouth and surreptitiously glide it over your cock with their mouth. Doesn’t that completely defeat the point? What are you protecting yourself from? Her saliva, right? So as soon as she puts it in her mouth, you’re at risk even if she isn’t. My solution is to bring my own condom, give it to her and ask her to NOT put it on with her mouth. My condom should go on my dick in a sterile way. You don’t have to bring your own but let her know you know its coming and she doesn’t need to hide it from you.
Pregnancy – Finally, don’t underestimate the desire of a third world girl to have a baby with a rich white (or any color) guy. If you have a regular girlfriend you keep, make sure you’re the one responsible for the birth control element of the relationship. Even if you think you can walk away clean and leave the country…you have a responsibility. I don’t think you want to explain to your wife why you’re sending $500 per month to the Philippines or why that African girl keeps showing up on your front door step. Yikes!
