East Africa really is the best place in the world to find beautiful and willing ladies. I have often said that some of the girls I’ve been with here would not give me a second glance in Europe or the U.S. Sure, I know that you all think (1) I’m crazy to be fooling around in Africa and (2) they only want me for my money. But, all fears and prejudices aside there is still good safe sex and…perhaps…love to be found here.
The problem here in East Africa is not “will I find a girl?” but rather “will I be able to stop finding girls?”. The temptation to find better and better ladies is definitely there. The temptation to explore your wildest fantasies is also there. For a single man with a little money and white skin, the hedonistic lifestyle would be very easy here; if you could keep your women from killing each other over jealousies.
It takes some getting used to and I’m sure the adjustment to life outside EA will also be a tough one. However, EA can give one a kind of super-human mind set. I mean, once you’ve had a supermodel, why can’t you have them all? I have a friend in the U.S. that scores with women everywhere he goes. I once asked him how he does it. He told me that when he walks into a room he imagines that every girl in the room wants him and that they are his for the taking. That kind of ego really does help with the chicks. What I’m trying to say is this… If you build up your confidence in East Africa with the knowledge that just about every beautiful girl is yours for the taking, you will take that confidence home with you. Sure it may be a turn off for some women but others will notice your extreme confidence and it will help you out.
I was with a girl the other day who I found, incidentally, on Adult Friend Finder. She is a beautiful girl who has a good job with an airline and simply loves sex. We chatted a lot before meeting. Our chats consisted of some flirting as well as some explicit sexual content. When I met her, I was surprised because you would have thought she was just a good looking airline professional. Our lunch consisted of small talk and not really any sexual innuendo. She traveled to my city later that month and let me know she was around. We agreed to meet in my office which, fortunately, has the convenience of being very private. 5 minutes after sitting on my office couch, she was reaching for my zipper. 20 minutes later (or was it 3 minutes later LOL) we were relaxing naked in post-coital bliss. This is a good looking girl with a great body who I chatted with online and bought lunch for once. No money exchanged hands. She likes sex…I like sex. Will we do it again? Maybe.
Yesterday I went into a casino and met a beautiful girl behind the information counter. There is no doubt in my mind that she would (a) go on a date with me and (b) sleep with me on that very date. Am I correct in my egotistical fantasy? Probably. I didn’t try because…well…remember the question above? Will I be able to stop finding girls? I have whittled my girls down to 3. One solid girlfriend that I love. One masseuse that will give me full service anytime (and incidentally my first African girl). And one girl who when she makes love to me, makes me forget about sex for two weeks…she’s the best. If I lost any of the three it would take me about 2 minutes and a couple of SMSes and phone calls to replace them. Well maybe that’s an exaggeration. None of these three could be replaced completely but I’m sure over time…