Chapter One – Why This Book?

Chapter Two – How It All Started

Chapter Three – Plan Ahead!

Chapter Four – AMPs Your Local Asian Massage Parlor

Chapter Five – Your Local Strip Joint

Chapter Six – Private Residence Massage Parlors

Chapter Seven – Establishing Your Alter-Ego Using the Internet

Chapter Eight – Internet Wild Side Resources

Chapter Nine – Safety from Prying Eyes and Jealous Lovers

Chapter Ten – International Mongering – Europe

Chapter Eleven A – International Mongering – Singapore

Chapter Eleven B – International Mongering – China

Chapter Eleven C – International Mongering – Taiwan

Chapter Eleven D – International Mongering – Japan

Chapter Eleven E – International Mongering – Korea

Chapter Twelve A – Third World Mongering – The Philippines

Chapter Twelve B – Third World Mongering – East Africa

Chapter Thirteen – Tips That Work Universally

Chapter Fourteen – The Science of Mongering

Chapter Fifteen – Stay Safe Out There!

Conclusion

Korea

The look of the Korean woman is my favorite in all the Asian cultures. There is something distinctly beautiful about a Korean woman. Sadly, although my travels have taken me to Korea the most, I have had the least experience with Korean women. It’s not very difficult to find a good working girl in Korea…I’ve just had bad luck with timing and such. And just about the time I got a clue, I found that I was not needed to travel to Korea anymore. So let me tell you what works and what doesn’t and what I’ll do when I go back.

Dating
First of all, Korea is a rich country so you will not find that third world dating techniques work there. A Korean woman is materialistic (very into the designer labels), well dressed, proper and (at least acts) disinterested in white men who hit on them. High maintenance girls fill this place. This makes them all the more alluring in my humble opinion. Not that you will strike out every time you try to form a relationship with a Korean but be ready for U.S. style rejection (or worse). If you are really trying to find a long term relationship and want to date, try one of the girls in the office (if you’re working in one). That will be your best bet. Still, you should remember that the Korean blood line is very important to most Koreans so inter-racial dating may not be well received.

Hostess Bars
In Seoul, there’s an area called Itaewon which hosts tourists by the thousands. They go there for knock off designer labels and leather goods. Sprinkled along the roads you will find some hostess bars. These are bars where attractive girls will sidle up next to you and chat you up; often rubbing your legs and more under the bar or table. Some are subtle and some are not depending on the bar. You’ll know a hostess bar as soon as you enter because you’ll be thinking, “I must look hot tonight baby!” Then you’ll realize that the hottest thing about you is your wallet. Hostess bars are expensive and getting you to buy “ladies drinks” is the catch. Your beer may cost $5 but that watered down drink your companion is sucking down at an alarming rate is worth $20. It’s OK to ask about drink prices by the way. If you must go to a hostess bar find out by the first drink if it’s possible to take a lady away from there and back to your hotel. It usually is but the price may be staggering. As in the Philippines, hostess bars will have a “bar fine”. This is a “fine” that you pay to the house in order to take a girl out of the bar and, presumably, to your hotel room. The bar fine may be worked into the price for the services rendered, or you may have to negotiate the bar fine separately. In any event, you will most likely have to part with some of your money before you leave the bar.

Hotel Massage
Forget about hotel massage unless you’re really looking for a great massage with no extras. For one thing, the masseuses they will send to your room in Korea are always blind. Yes, blind as in they cannot see. They are excellent masseuses and there’s nothing wrong with ordering one in your room to relax and unwind after a long day at the office. Just realize that they are ALL business and I’ve never seen one that was particularly good looking enough to hit on.

Yellow Page Escort Services
I’ve never had the balls to call one of these places and have a girl sent up. I always imagine that the girl will be ugly and her bouncer will make me pay anyway. I do have a friend who is a bit more timid about exploring than I am. He swears by these services and has told me about his exploits with some of the most beautiful women in Asia. Generally you’re going to pay a lot more for this. It could be $200-$300 or more. I told you we weren’t in the third world anymore.

Karaoke and KTV Places
This is also a target rich but fairly expensive way to find a girl for the night. These places are way more fun if you’re with a small group of co-workers and the tab is on the company. Do yourself a favor though. When you find the hostess girl you want, be discreet or it’ll be all over the office the next day. Ask her to meet you later at your hotel or offer to meet her after her shift is over. It may mean finding the place again (hopefully it’s not too far from your hotel) and making a late night of it. Also, find out if the girl you’re after is a local girl or if she’s an import on a visa. You’ll have much better luck if she’s on a short time visa from the Philippines or Thailand. Tip this girl discreetly and she’ll melt in your hands.

Oh-Par-Par
You down with OPP? This is the place I’m visiting next time. This, according to everyone, is the Amsterdam of Asia complete with window shopping and line ups (women on display for your choosing). The last time I went to Seoul, I asked a bell hop how far it was to OhParPar and he brushed me off. However, a younger guy (also a valet) overheard the interchange and approached me as I went to the elevator. He said he knew what I was looking for and would like to accompany me there after his shift. Seems he liked the place too. Bottom line was that he got off too late for my tired bones that night but the lesson is: The right local can show you a good time…sometimes for the price of a beer alone. When I go back, I’m going to hook up with a trusted local and head out for a good time.

Ex-pat Bars
Anytime you find a bar frequented mostly by Ex-pats, you will find a number of possibilities. This includes local working girls who know the ex-pat scene is rich with money, families (including disgruntled wives and defiant teens) of ex-pats, and tourists looking for a no-strings-attached lay. Not a bad place to check and they always have the best beer if all else fails. I found a great British pub, owned by a German, in the middle of Korea. The beer was about all I could brag about though. Still the company was good…it just didn’t come back to the hotel with me.

Author’s Experience:

When I was young and naïve, I went to an ex-pat bar where a lovely lady (the owner) chatted me up for quite awhile. She actually invited me to a movie for later on that afternoon. In retrospect, she was a horny older babe that probably wanted a lot more than a movie date. Like I said, I was young and naïve. Ah, what could have been!

5 Tips for Successful Mongering in Korea:

1) Like in Japan, it is unlikely that you will make a connection in Korea through AFF but by all means, try searching the World Sex Guide. The members will tell you what’s available by city there. …and it doesn’t hurt to try AFF if you have the time.
2) If you’re in Seoul, make sure to visit Itaewon. Any reputable hotel will have tourist busses going to Itaewon at multiple times during the day. When you are there, take a peek at some of the hostess bars but be warned that they will literally drag you in and sit you down if given the chance. If you sit down with a girl, you are in for at least a beer and one lady drink which may cost you a cool $25. The girl will probably be rubbing your dick under the table and “small head mentality” will coax you to stay. If you like the girl, my advice is to cut a deal quickly and leave with her. Otherwise you will be sucked into drink after drink and have a hefty bill before you leave.
3) I don’t think there is any sex allowed on the premises of these hostess bars but you never know. If you want to avoid the embarrassment of bringing a hooker back to your hotel room, you can always try for the quickie blowjob inside the bar. I wouldn’t advise trying it on the streets or alleys. You never know if a criminal element or a police officer is watching.
4) If you have a friend or co-worker you can trust, ask him to recommend a hostess bar or simply a place like I talked about in the Oh-Par-Par section above.
5) When all else fails, try an ex-pat bar. In Korea there are plenty of ex-pat bars and they are often filled with lovely ladies. Remember to be observant. You don’t want to proposition the owner’s girlfriend or wife and then end up with a funny tasting pint of lager

Find Rob Frank’s new eBook “Find Sex Anywhere!” at www.vandelayebooks.com or email Rob at findsexanywhere@gmail.com

Japan

Ah Japan! Where my innocence was lost. If you’ve read the first part of this book you’ll understand why I’ve been turned into an Asian crazy mongerer. Japan was where it all started. It’s been a long time since I’ve been to Japan so I won’t pretend to know all the ins and outs of Japan mongering. I do know that sex in Japan is alive and well and that its not too hard to find.

Dating
Like Korea, Japan is no third world country type place where young women are going to throw themselves at your feet because you are a foreigner or Gaigin. Japanese girls are mostly interested in Japanese boys. That being said, it’s not impossible to date a Japanese girl. Just be prepared for the “talk to the hand” routine a few times before you are successful. Like Korea, these girls are fashion conscious, high maintenance individuals. If you’re wearing stripes and plaids and have a knot in your necktie as big as your head, the only reason they’re looking at you is because they want to take your picture to post on their blog just for laughs.

Yellow Page Escort Services
In Japan this option is worth a try although language and writing may be a barrier so you’ll have to rely on the internet. Always tell the agency what you want and let them know if the girl is not to your liking, you will send her away with cab fare.

Girls Business Cards
All over Tokyo and other major Japanese cities you will find these business cards advertising promising services. Often you’ll find that the pictures on these cards are explicit and mildly arousing. If you pass a phone booth with a couple cards you find attractive, take them for later. It may be a bit embarrassing but don’t worry. Even if the Japanese don’t approve, they will never act in a way to embarrass you…that would shame them.

Karaoke and KTV Places
This is huge in Japan but a fairly expensive way to find a girl for the night. These places are way more fun if you’re with a small group of co-workers and the tab is on the company. Be advised that the Japanese karaoke bars often have different levels. One level may be unaffordable to you but there may be a lower level where you can be comfortable. Also, your mongering will be better if you find a bar with imported girls instead of Japanese girls. If you find yourself at one of these places with a girl on wither side of you encouraging you to drink and sing, tip the girls discreetly before you try to grope them. Small tips are fine, especially at import girl bars. A $5 tip in any currency will be well received and may lead to a hotel visit (if that’s what you’d like). Ask her to meet you later at your hotel or offer to meet her after her shift is over. Leave her cab fare so she knows you’re serious.

Shinjuku
As in my story at the beginning of this book, Shinjuku is still an active place for nightlife and sexual fun. Any massage parlor down there will provide services to you. Just don’t expect them to advertise (like I did at first). They will tell you, “No Sex!, No Sex!” all the way until you get behind closed doors. Then they’ll ask you if you want a hand job, blowjob, or fuck. Shinjuku is also filled with “guides” willing to direct you to places they’ll receive a commission from. Some of these guys are legit and some are not. My first guy led me to a smoky room with some actual Kabuki entertainment. Great if you’re a 50-year-old housewife wanting to experience Japanese culture but lousy if you’re a man seeking sexual pleasure. My advice is to wander around and find your own place. When I was there, there was a place called USA Massage that was quite an operation. If you use a guide, don’t give him any money until you’ve seen the inside of the place and are sure you’re getting a “massage”. The guides can be good if you don’t want to visit the McDonalds of massage parlors (like USA Massage) where they crank American servicemen through like Kobe beef cattle.

5 Tips for Successful Mongering in Japan:

1) It is unlikely that you will make a connection in Japan through AFF but by all means, try searching the World Sex Guide. The members will tell you what’s available by city there. …and it doesn’t hurt to try AFF if you have the time.
2) If you’re in Tokyo, make sure to visit Shinjuku. It’s a major subway stop so you should not have a problem locating it. It is a large station however. Make sure you get your bearings and head into the Shinjuku district rather than back into Tokyo center. The Japanese will probably not help you…not because they’re rude but because they are embarrassed to show you they do not speak perfect English.
3) Once in Shinjuku, take a look at some of the obvious massage parlors (like a neon sign flashing USA Massage). Wander around a bit before settling on one. If you don’t see one that suits you, there will be plenty of men in Shinjuku, willing to direct you for a price. I think the best ones are unmarked and known only to the local guides.
4) If you have a friend or co-worker you can trust, ask him to recommend a hostess bar. He’ll most likely offer to take you and maybe even pay for the evening. These places are filled with beautiful young women who may or may not be available for some late night fun. Either way it’s a great way to spend an evening and a good way to become closer to colleagues abroad. Remember if your friend pays, you’ll need to repay the favor when he comes to your home town.
5) When all else fails, try the yellow pages and find an escort service. In Japan, they’ll have a menu to rival all. It’s likely that you can choose from various ethnicities, skin tones, body types, etc. You’ll not be disappointed but your wallet will be lighter.

China

China is a great country! I’m not talking politics or human rights here. I’m talking lots of pretty girls, willing and able to provide you with fun to rock your imagination. My first night in China was filled with awe and wonderment as I wandered the city of Shanghai.

Street Massage Girls

Stray just off the main city streets and you will find many women approaching you. I had one approach me with the line, “You want massage?” I smiled and shook my head with a “no thanks”. She continued, saying, “Sex massage!” I had to laugh. The thought of her thinking I was such a rube, I didn’t know what she was offering the first time! You cannot walk around at night without being approached multiple times by these massage girls. Some are older and ugly and others are very attractive. Still, my advice is to avoid street action. They are there for a reason. Sometimes its because they are not licensed (yes some are licensed) and sometimes its because they have been thrown out of their house or brothel. Either way, you’re better safe than sorry.

Brothels / Houses

You’ll also find, as you walk about, that there are many houses that simply exist to pull foreigners off the street and service them. You’ll identify these places by the scantily dressed girls hanging out the windows, calling to you. Not a bad way to scratch an itch. Just make sure to identify the girl you want and cut a deal with her before entering. There will no doubt be some extra negotiation inside but the prices are pretty reasonable and the girls are pretty. You can read about my experience in one of these houses below. Good for a quick release!

Author’s Posting from The World Sex Guide:

Report from Shanghai

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Report from Shanghai: I’ve been in Shanghai less than 24 hours but here is my take on things form what it’s worth. Due to some previous reports, I took a walk at night from the Intercontinental Hotel in Pudong to the Courtyard Marriot. I was approached no less than 12 times during the walk by massage girls. Several of them were very nice looking. I found the BBS with the b/w BBS sign that was mentioned before in this thread but did not venture in. On my walk back I found two “walk by” apartments where girls were calling out to me (and I assume any other foreigner looking for trouble). One girl in particular caught my eye and I walked back around to see what the deal was. This place is easy to find. Right across the street from the Courtyard Marriot is a stretch of street where the sidewalk is taken up by bamboo scaffolding. If you walk down that stretch of street you will be solicited. Here’s the deal. I chose one girl (I’d say an to give me a massage. The quoted rate was 100 RMB. When I got inside she pushed for a two girl experience. I was OK with that given I’d never done it before and like everyone else it’s been a lifelong dream. Both girls were hot with nice bodies and faces but small tits (amazing what those bras they wear can do for the figure!) I knew I’d never escape with the 200 RMB quoted and sure enough, the upsell started when I got inside and they started to rub my nipples and crotch area through my clothes. So I ended up with a two girl BJ and paid 600. Now before you all write in and tell me how stupid I am, remember I just had “two chicks at the same time” for around $75. Will I do better next time? Yes. The massage experience wasn’t that great but the BJ was fantastic and that’s all I usually want. FS is just too risky in my opinion. All in all it was a good experience but I can’t wait to try one of the spas listed above.

By the way, I was also approached by several DVD salesmen. So, to the guy who’s wondering about DVDs, they’re out there. Just take a walk in the evening time.

The bottom line here is if you’re looking for sex in Shanghai, you can find it. It just takes a little adventuring out. The girls will find you if you’re out walking. I was real tempted to take the first one back to the room and FHBO but I’m not so sure about the street walkers and I definitely want to try that RJ spa. I’ll report on it soon. Enjoy!

Spas / Saunas

By far the best experience in China. Reasonably priced, these places will make you feel like a king for how ever long you’re willing to pay for this service. I cannot describe the experience well enough except to say, if there’s one thing you do in China, visit one of these places. Screw the Great Wall. Visit the great saunas! You can read about one of my experiences that I posted on The World Sex Guide. It still doesn’t begin to describe how great that experience was. The other thing about the saunas was that I got the impression that my massage girls would have been happy to meet me at my hotel anytime. It makes sense as she probably gets a very small cut of the money I paid to the front desk. For half that amount, I’m sure I could have her for the night and she’d be even more enthusiastic. One of my favorite experiences is posted below.

Author’s Posting from The World Sex Guide:

2nd Report from Shanghai

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OK. After visiting the Yu Ping Sauna, I feel like my first post is inconsequential. However, I wanted to post it because I wanted you all to know that services are available all over the pace in Shanghai and depending on your perspective, you’ll be satisfied.

On to Yu Ping. The reviews are correct. This place is awesome. I don’t know how you can top this type of experience so I’ll probably not try…I’ll just hope to get back to Yu Ping asap.

My experience was like the others. I was greeted by friendly staff and shower personnel. They don’t speak much English but don’t worry. They know what you’re there for. I too declined the back scrub from the guys. It’s not a big deal and there’s certainly no gay element to it. It’s probably a convenient way to clean your back and backside for the girls. Who knows? Maybe it gets you a better girl if they know they’ve washed your back and ass. After all, the girl is going to pay a LOT of attention to these areas.

We went to a relaxation area and I was given a Moon Cake and some cola. I felt kind of useless in here but I wasn’t worried because I was ready to get inside the room.

I had no choice of girl but that was OK. I got a very beautiful and friendly massage girl. She was about a 7-8 with a beautiful face and medium tits. She had innie nipples which was kind of cool for a change. 830 if you need a number. And she said to tell the guy when he hands you your bracelet if you want to request a special girl number. The bracelet is for your locker.

Anyway, she started with a massage through the towel. Heavy massage and good strong hands. She then disappeared and came back with her “equipment” which consisted of a bucket and pitcher of hot water. This hot water mouth massage cannot be described adequately. Let’s just say I was in heaven for about 1/2 hour. She used the water in her mouth and proceeded to suck and lick every inch of my body from ears to toes.

She did every inch and saved my ass for last. That hot water tongue bath of my ass was incredible. She didn’t fool around either. She started easy and then I’d say she was TF’ing me toward the end. Wow!

Rolled over and she began giving me BBBJ service and she could take it down too. She didn’t do the hang upside down thing until she’d BBBJ’d me for awhile. Then she used the bars and red silk to make a swing for herself and had me stand up on the table to protected FS her in the swing. When I got tired we returned to the table for some more FS. This girl would have done anything I’m sure. I had had enough by then. The FS was great but I’m more of a BJ guy so in retrospect, I should have let her finish me like that.

All in all a great, great experience. 700 RMB at the end. Let me say that I’m sure the other Spas are similar experiences so Yu Ping is not the only way to go. However, it is a good way. You will not be disappointed. If you’re in Pudong or even Puxi this is about a 20 minute cab ride. Well worth it but thought I’d let you know that you’ll need a good 2-3 hours for this experience.

Thanks guys for the hot tip. I owe you Yu Ping recommenders big time.

5 Tips for Successful Mongering in China:

1) If you can plan your trip in advance, do so. Get on a site like Adult Friend Finder and begin to network and communicate with some girls in the area you are going. You will find many willing and able women looking for “husband material” from the West. There are many sites that cater to this kind of connection so google it and plan ahead.

2) Remember that even though it seems sexually liberated, China is a communist country with censorship and internet monitoring. You can surf but don’t be surprised if the site you are visiting tonight is not available tomorrow. If you find something interesting, save the page as an html document on your computer. Be careful though so you don’t receive a visit from one of Uncle Mao’s cronies.

3) Walk around the area where you are staying to see what comes out to greet you. You might be surprised. Stay safe and obviously don’t go out into a dangerous area. There are plenty of women on the well lit streets.

4) Find a good sauna/spa to visit. The best way to do this is through a recommendation from a knowledgeable friend. Either a local or, if you’ve done your research, a recommendation from The World Sex Guide: www.worldsexguide.com

5) China can also be a place to find a normal (non-working) girl to be your girlfriend for the trip. If you find a good looking girl in your normal goings-about-town it doesn’t hurt to ask her to dinner or drinks. She’ll be impressed that you can spend more than her weekly (or monthly) salary on a nice dinner for two. A “nightcap” in your hotel room will not be out of the question. Just know that you may or may not find she has the skills of a pro. She certainly won’t match the service you can find in a spa but she may be just the ticket for a China romance.

Find Rob Frank’s new eBook “Find Sex Anywhere!” at www.vandelayebooks.com or email Rob at findsexanywhere@gmail.com

China

China is a great country! I’m not talking politics or human rights here. I’m talking lots of pretty girls, willing and able to provide you with fun to rock your imagination. My first night in China was filled with awe and wonderment as I wandered the city of Shanghai.

Street Massage Girls

Stray just off the main city streets and you will find many women approaching you. I had one approach me with the line, “You want massage?” I smiled and shook my head with a “no thanks”. She continued, saying, “Sex massage!” I had to laugh. The thought of her thinking I was such a rube, I didn’t know what she was offering the first time! You cannot walk around at night without being approached multiple times by these massage girls. Some are older and ugly and others are very attractive. Still, my advice is to avoid street action. They are there for a reason. Sometimes its because they are not licensed (yes some are licensed) and sometimes its because they have been thrown out of their house or brothel. Either way, you’re better safe than sorry.

Brothels / Houses

You’ll also find, as you walk about, that there are many houses that simply exist to pull foreigners off the street and service them. You’ll identify these places by the scantily dressed girls hanging out the windows, calling to you. Not a bad way to scratch an itch. Just make sure to identify the girl you want and cut a deal with her before entering. There will no doubt be some extra negotiation inside but the prices are pretty reasonable and the girls are pretty. You can read about my experience in one of these houses below. Good for a quick release!

Author’s Posting from The World Sex Guide:

Report from Shanghai

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Report from Shanghai: I’ve been in Shanghai less than 24 hours but here is my take on things form what it’s worth. Due to some previous reports, I took a walk at night from the Intercontinental Hotel in Pudong to the Courtyard Marriot. I was approached no less than 12 times during the walk by massage girls. Several of them were very nice looking. I found the BBS with the b/w BBS sign that was mentioned before in this thread but did not venture in. On my walk back I found two “walk by” apartments where girls were calling out to me (and I assume any other foreigner looking for trouble). One girl in particular caught my eye and I walked back around to see what the deal was. This place is easy to find. Right across the street from the Courtyard Marriot is a stretch of street where the sidewalk is taken up by bamboo scaffolding. If you walk down that stretch of street you will be solicited. Here’s the deal. I chose one girl (I’d say an to give me a massage. The quoted rate was 100 RMB. When I got inside she pushed for a two girl experience. I was OK with that given I’d never done it before and like everyone else it’s been a lifelong dream. Both girls were hot with nice bodies and faces but small tits (amazing what those bras they wear can do for the figure!) I knew I’d never escape with the 200 RMB quoted and sure enough, the upsell started when I got inside and they started to rub my nipples and crotch area through my clothes. So I ended up with a two girl BJ and paid 600. Now before you all write in and tell me how stupid I am, remember I just had “two chicks at the same time” for around $75. Will I do better next time? Yes. The massage experience wasn’t that great but the BJ was fantastic and that’s all I usually want. FS is just too risky in my opinion. All in all it was a good experience but I can’t wait to try one of the spas listed above.

By the way, I was also approached by several DVD salesmen. So, to the guy who’s wondering about DVDs, they’re out there. Just take a walk in the evening time.

The bottom line here is if you’re looking for sex in Shanghai, you can find it. It just takes a little adventuring out. The girls will find you if you’re out walking. I was real tempted to take the first one back to the room and FHBO but I’m not so sure about the street walkers and I definitely want to try that RJ spa. I’ll report on it soon. Enjoy!

Spas / Saunas

By far the best experience in China. Reasonably priced, these places will make you feel like a king for how ever long you’re willing to pay for this service. I cannot describe the experience well enough except to say, if there’s one thing you do in China, visit one of these places. Screw the Great Wall. Visit the great saunas! You can read about one of my experiences that I posted on The World Sex Guide. It still doesn’t begin to describe how great that experience was. The other thing about the saunas was that I got the impression that my massage girls would have been happy to meet me at my hotel anytime. It makes sense as she probably gets a very small cut of the money I paid to the front desk. For half that amount, I’m sure I could have her for the night and she’d be even more enthusiastic. One of my favorite experiences is posted below.

Author’s Posting from The World Sex Guide:

2nd Report from Shanghai

---

OK. After visiting the Yu Ping Sauna, I feel like my first post is inconsequential. However, I wanted to post it because I wanted you all to know that services are available all over the pace in Shanghai and depending on your perspective, you’ll be satisfied.

On to Yu Ping. The reviews are correct. This place is awesome. I don’t know how you can top this type of experience so I’ll probably not try…I’ll just hope to get back to Yu Ping asap.

My experience was like the others. I was greeted by friendly staff and shower personnel. They don’t speak much English but don’t worry. They know what you’re there for. I too declined the back scrub from the guys. It’s not a big deal and there’s certainly no gay element to it. It’s probably a convenient way to clean your back and backside for the girls. Who knows? Maybe it gets you a better girl if they know they’ve washed your back and ass. After all, the girl is going to pay a LOT of attention to these areas.

We went to a relaxation area and I was given a Moon Cake and some cola. I felt kind of useless in here but I wasn’t worried because I was ready to get inside the room.

I had no choice of girl but that was OK. I got a very beautiful and friendly massage girl. She was about a 7-8 with a beautiful face and medium tits. She had innie nipples which was kind of cool for a change. 830 if you need a number. And she said to tell the guy when he hands you your bracelet if you want to request a special girl number. The bracelet is for your locker.

Anyway, she started with a massage through the towel. Heavy massage and good strong hands. She then disappeared and came back with her “equipment” which consisted of a bucket and pitcher of hot water. This hot water mouth massage cannot be described adequately. Let’s just say I was in heaven for about 1/2 hour. She used the water in her mouth and proceeded to suck and lick every inch of my body from ears to toes.

She did every inch and saved my ass for last. That hot water tongue bath of my ass was incredible. She didn’t fool around either. She started easy and then I’d say she was TF’ing me toward the end. Wow!

Rolled over and she began giving me BBBJ service and she could take it down too. She didn’t do the hang upside down thing until she’d BBBJ’d me for awhile. Then she used the bars and red silk to make a swing for herself and had me stand up on the table to protected FS her in the swing. When I got tired we returned to the table for some more FS. This girl would have done anything I’m sure. I had had enough by then. The FS was great but I’m more of a BJ guy so in retrospect, I should have let her finish me like that.

All in all a great, great experience. 700 RMB at the end. Let me say that I’m sure the other Spas are similar experiences so Yu Ping is not the only way to go. However, it is a good way. You will not be disappointed. If you’re in Pudong or even Puxi this is about a 20 minute cab ride. Well worth it but thought I’d let you know that you’ll need a good 2-3 hours for this experience.

Thanks guys for the hot tip. I owe you Yu Ping recommenders big time.

5 Tips for Successful Mongering in China:

1) If you can plan your trip in advance, do so. Get on a site like Adult Friend Finder and begin to network and communicate with some girls in the area you are going. You will find many willing and able women looking for “husband material” from the West. There are many sites that cater to this kind of connection so google it and plan ahead.

2) Remember that even though it seems sexually liberated, China is a communist country with censorship and internet monitoring. You can surf but don’t be surprised if the site you are visiting tonight is not available tomorrow. If you find something interesting, save the page as an html document on your computer. Be careful though so you don’t receive a visit from one of Uncle Mao’s cronies.

3) Walk around the area where you are staying to see what comes out to greet you. You might be surprised. Stay safe and obviously don’t go out into a dangerous area. There are plenty of women on the well lit streets.

4) Find a good sauna/spa to visit. The best way to do this is through a recommendation from a knowledgeable friend. Either a local or, if you’ve done your research, a recommendation from The World Sex Guide: www.worldsexguide.com

5) China can also be a place to find a normal (non-working) girl to be your girlfriend for the trip. If you find a good looking girl in your normal goings-about-town it doesn’t hurt to ask her to dinner or drinks. She’ll be impressed that you can spend more than her weekly (or monthly) salary on a nice dinner for two. A “nightcap” in your hotel room will not be out of the question. Just know that you may or may not find she has the skills of a pro. She certainly won’t match the service you can find in a spa but she may be just the ticket for a China romance.

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